From the Pastor


 “No one can serve two masters. He will either hate one and love the other, or be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon.” (Matthew 6:24) This weekend is our last weekend in Ordinary Time and, beginning on Wednesday we enter into the season of Lent. Often times people cringe during the season of Lent because we think of all the things that we have to “give up;” however, have we ever thought of the things that we actually gain when we give up things for the Lord? To list all the benefits of what we gain when we give all to the Lord is an endless list, but for our purposes today I am going to ask us all to give up something that we find important and begin to center ourselves more and more on God because He is the most important thing in our lives! Here is my practical guide on what to “give up” this Lenten Season; and, please remember that we always gain more than we ever give up.


The snooze alarm. This simple invention has caused more lateness than anything else, so, what do I suggest to combat the allure of the snooze alarm? Discipline. I ask that you discipline yourselves this season of Lent and recognize that getting to bed earlier is a sacrifice at the time but the end result is well worth it.


Complaining. Now, if there is something that I find myself doing quite often it is this very thing—complaining. Yet, what do I have to complain about? I can hear, see, taste, touch, and many other wonderful things as well. When we begin to appreciate the gifts that the Lord has given to us we begin to realize that there is no room in us to complain; rather, we simply rejoice in the beauty of what God has bestowed on us His beloved children. During Lent and beyond may we continue to “Rejoice in the Lord!” (cf. Philippians 4:4)


One final thing that we can give up this Lenten season is excuses. Please stop making excuses of why this habit will be too hard. My friends, when we commit ourselves to the Lord excuses are non-existent. He walks by our side and helps us through the difficulties of life. May we be focused on the Lord Jesus Christ this week and, especially as we prepare for the season of Lent.


May the Lord Bless You and Keep You,

Fr. Kalista 

2017 Lenten Calendar

Please join us for Lenten Activities here at Immaculate Conception:


March 1, Ash Wednesday

7:30am Mass w/distribution of ashes

12:15pm Service w/distribution of ashes

7:00pm Mass w/distribution of ashes

Friday, March 3

5:00-6:30pm Confessions

6:30pm Rosary

7:00pm Mass

7:30pm Stations of the Cross


Saturday, March 4-5

Men’s Retreat 8:30 am Mass





Sunday, March 5

9:30-10:30am Between the Masses in SJH

Monday, March 6

6:15pm PSR Confessions 


Wednesday, March 8

12:15 pm Stations of the Cross





Friday, March 10

1st Simple Supper SJH

5:45pm Evening Prayer SJH

6:00pm Supper SJH

6:00pm Adoration in Church

7:00pm Stations of the Cross


Sunday, March 12

9:30am-10:30 Between the Masses in SJH


Wednesday, March 15

12:15pm Stations of the Cross

4:00-9:00pm Eucharistic Devotions

5:00-8:00pm Evening of Confession

9:00 Reposition




Friday, March 17

6:00pm Adoration

7:00pm Stations of the Cross


Monday, March 20

6:30pm Mass in honor of St. Joseph (PSR)

Wednesday, March 22

12:15pm Stations of the Cross





Friday, March 24

2nd Simple Supper SJH

5:45pm Evening Prayer SJH

6:00pm Supper SJH

6:00pm Adoration in Church

7:00pm Stations of the Cross

Saturday, March 25

6:00am-4:00pm Rosary Rally (see Bulletin March 18 & 19)

9:45am Mass of the Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary


Sunday, March 26

9:30-10:30am Between the Masses SJH

5:30pm Simple Supper SJH

7:00pm Parish Mission in Church




Monday, March 27

7:00pm Parish Mission


Tuesday, March 28

7:00pm Mass

 Conclude Parish Mission

Wednesday, March 29

12:15pm Stations of the Cross 


Friday, March 31

6:00pm Adoration in Church

7:00pm Stations of the Cross


Monday, April 3

6:15pm Stations of the Cross (PSR)


Wednesday, April 5

12:15pm Stations of the Cross

6:00-7:30pm Confessions




Friday, April 7

5:00-6:30pm Confessions

6:30pm Rosary

7:00pm Mass

7:30pm Stations of the Cross


Monday, April 10

9:00-10:00am Confessions  

12:30-1:30pm Confessions

5:30-7:00pm Confessions


Wednesday, April 12

9:00-10:00am Confessions

12:15pm Stations of the Cross

1:00-2:00pm Confessions

5:00-6:30pm Confessions

7:00pm Tenebrae




April 13, Holy Thursday

7:30am Morning Prayer

6:30pm Evening Prayer

7:00pm Mass of the Lord’s Supper

8:30-12:00pm Midnight Adoration in Chapel of the Immaculate Conception


April 14, Good Friday

9:00am Morning Prayer

12:00pm Stations of the Cross

3:00pm Passion of the Lord Service

4:30pm Day #1 Novena for the Divine Mercy

6:30pm Stations of the Cross

April 15, Holy Saturday

9:00 am Morning Prayer

9:30am Day #2 Novena for the Divine Mercy

12:00pm Blessing of Easter Baskets

9:00pm Easter Vigil





April 16, Easter

7:00am Easter Mass

8:15am Day #3 Novena for the Divine Mercy

8:30am Easter Mass

10:45am Day #3 Novena for the Divine Mercy

11:00am Easter Mass

April17-April 20

7:30am Mass

8:00am Novena for the Divine Mercy Days 4-7


Friday, April 21

9:00am Mass

9:30am Day #8 Novena for the Divine Mercy

10:00-11:00am Confessions






Saturday, April 22

2:30-4:00pm Confessions

4:30pm Mass for the Divine Mercy

5:30pm Day #9 Novena for the Divine Mercy


Sunday, April 23

8:30am Mass for the Divine Mercy

9:30am Recitation of the Divine Mercy

11:00am Mass for the Divine Mercy

12:00-2:30pm Confessions

3:00pm Celebration of the Divine Mercy 



God is alive in our parish. Invite Him to be alive in your heart!






Lenten Opportunities from Fr. Kalista

Evening of Confession March 15, 2017...A Letter from Fr. Kalista



Dear Parishioners,

As we prepare to enter the season of Lent I want to bring your attention to an annual event held each year in the Diocese of Cleveland. The event is the “Evening of Confession.” Throughout our Diocese, on Wednesday, March 15 from 5:00-8:00pm every parish will be offering the Sacrament of Reconciliation. The hope that the diocese has, and the hope that I have, is that every person will take advantage of this beautiful gift of healing. I am inviting you, the parishioners of the parish to join others as we celebrate this wonderful day. Last year I was overjoyed to spend four and half hours in the confessional. After I was finished, my eyes were filled with tears, and I was overflowing with gratitude to our Lord since I knew that many sons and daughters had returned to the faith and expressed their desire to receive the mercy of God. Would you be willing to join me this year? I am hoping that I have to spend five hours in the confessional, simply because there is no more incredible way to spend my time than helping others surrender to God’s mercy.

 As we did last year, I will offer Eucharistic Adoration from 4:00-9:00pm. I am asking that everyone join us for Adoration, even if you have been to confession recently. Use this time to worship our Eucharistic Lord and offer your prayers for those who are coming to celebrate the Sacrament of Confession on this special Evening of Confession. As I prepare for this night, I am asking that you also prepare with me. And this is what I am asking you to do:

 The first is that I am asking you to please fast, either on the day of the Evening of Confession or the day before, and offer that fast for hearts to be open to receiving the mercy of God. A fast could be: the elimination of caffeine for the day, not eating between meals, or simply eating only bread and water. Why fast? When we fast we join in a more intense way our prayers to God.

 The second is to pray. I will be offering a novena, following the Masses, beginning on Monday, March 6 and will conclude on Tuesday, March 14. The novena will be through Our Lady, Undoer of Knots. My request is that our prayers will unite with Our Blessed Mother’s as we ask Her Son to intercede for all who will be celebrating the sacrament of confession.

 The final thing is to invite. Please let everyone know about this opportunity to celebrate the sacrament of confession. Your personal invitation will help others recognize that confession is not about making someone feel ashamed; rather, it is all about helping one recognize that they are indeed loved by the Lord. I know that you know of someone who could benefit from this sacrament so please invite them.

As we prepare to enter into this time of Lent the theme of Mercy is mentioned over and over again. I hope that you will take time during the Evening of Confession and come back to confession. Again, this opportunity is for you and for anyone who has been away from the sacrament of confession for some time. I am requesting your presence, and be assured of my gratitude for making this night a time of reconciliation with the Lord. You remain in my prayers. 

May the Lord Bless You and Keep You,

Fr. Timothy Kalista

Night at the Races March, 18, 2017

Night At The Races March 18, 2017

Men's Retreat - March 4 and 5 - deadline February 25


Historical Houses of Worship Tour March 22, 2017


Historical Houses of Worship Tour

March 22, 2017


We will depart at 8:15 am (from the Church Parking lot) and return about 4:15 pm. Enjoy an inspirational tour with your friends from Immaculate Conception Parish for a wonderful adventure.



Our trip will start by seeing the historic St. Stephen’ Church. Other Churches that we will visit are St. Colman, lunch at Sokolowski's University Inn of Tremont (served cafeteria style) They offer 5 different entrée options along with sides and beverages and no one leaves hungry! After lunch, we’ll visit St. Michael the Archangel, We will complete our day visiting St. Paul’s Conversion Shrine.


Cost for this trip is only $59.00


Please make checks payable to JKL TOURS. Forms are in the Parish Office. 

Stuff The Truck April 8-9, 2017

Father Kalista at the March for Life 1-27-17

   Father Kalista travels to Washington D.C. with parishioners to participate in the March For Life. Father concelebrated Mass this morning at the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception with Cardinal Gregory Aymond. In the afternoon they joined with many on the mall and marched to Capital Hill in support of the unborn.

Father Kalista's Town Hall Meeting Notes

Parish Town Hall Meeting

January 25, 2017

Feast of the Conversion of St. Paul

Opening Prayer Let us Pray:


Glorious Saint Paul,

Most zealous apostle,

Martyr for the love of Christ,

Give us a deep faith,
A steadfast hope,
A burning love for our Lord,
So that we can proclaim with you,
“It is no longer I who live,
But Christ who lives in me.”

Help us to become apostles,
Serving the Church with a pure heart,
Witnesses to her truth and beauty
Amidst the darkness of our days.
With you we praise God our Father:
“To him be the glory, in the Church
And in Christ,
Now and forever.”





I want to welcome all of you, and in particular, I want to thank you all for coming to our second parish town hall meeting. I also want to thank you for the continued prayers, support, and encouragement you have given to me since coming to the parish as pastor. It is hard for me to believe that on July 15, 2015 I was named your pastor and, since coming here I have felt your prayers, your support, and of course your encouragement. I realize that being new, relatively young, and only ordained for 13 years, that my experience as pastor is limited; however, one thing that is not limited is my passion and desire to bring Christ to the whole parish and beyond. Today, the Church celebrates the Conversion of the Apostle St. Paul. If I may expound on this Feast day for a brief moment: Saul’s conversion actually encompassed three aspects:


The first was that Saul heard a voice. Obviously, as we read in the Acts of the Apostles, the voice was the Lord Jesus Christ who called out to Saul and said, “Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me?” Yet, before that voice spoke to the apostle, there was another voice that Saul had heard: The voice of St. Stephen: “Father, forgive them for this sin…”(Cf. Acts 7:60) I believe that the voice of St. Stephen was resonating throughout the mind of Saul. Maybe Saul thought: “How could one so young be so mature in his faith as to ask for God’s mercy for the people who were stoning him? Perhaps if God was showing mercy to Stephen and to us, his accusers, could that mean that I, the righteous one am wrong?” In desperation Saul desired to escape the voice of his mind and thus he entered more deeply into his murderous quest—“Now Saul, still breathing murderous threats against the disciples of the Lord, went to the high priest and asked him for letters to the synagogues in Damascus, that, if he should find any men or women who belonged to the Way, he might bring them back to Jerusalem in chains. (Acts 9:1-2)


This would help Saul on his second part of his conversion; namely, the journey! The journey that Saul made would take him about a week –  one week, and due to the fact that he was a Pharisee he would make this journey on his own. Saul would then have to confront the voice as he neared his destination desiring to eliminate the men and women who belonged to the “Way.” The journey for Saul is one that would be transforming for him since he would, in fact, be continuing this journey throughout his life as he traveled the whole world proclaiming the message of Jesus Christ. Finally, Saul would have to endure suffering, suffering because he would bear the name of Jesus Christ and, throughout his life would also bear the “marks of Christ on his body.” (Cf. Galatians 6:17)


Now, what does this have to do with us today? I believe that each and every one of us has heard the voice of the Lord. Why else would we be here today? I am asking that as we begin this discussion of our parish and what we would like to do in the future, that you realize that being present is heeding the voice of God. Please make sure that each and every one of you understands that sitting here today is the first response to following the commands of the Lord – just like St. Paul.


The journey you have made to be here today is also worth noting. All of you have come here with different experiences of Church. Yet, you are here, and how grateful I am to have you with us as we discuss the exciting changes that our parish is experiencing.


Your suffering is that we all have to change in order to make this transformation and growth possible. So, as we come here today please know that as I make changes or add things, it is not to make one’s life a misery, but really to enhance the life and the growth of the parish.


Now, as we have listened to the introduction what will this meeting cover? My intention today is to focus on three key areas that I believe we need to be aware of in our parish; they are: Where we were? In this section I am going to briefly expound for you what our parish looked like 25 years ago. In this section it is not my intention to speak about the “good old days” rather, in this section it is my intention to point out the good news that, despite changes that have been happening – our parish is still vibrant today.


This of course will lead us to where we are today—in this section I am going to invite you, the parishioners to ask any question you want of what you have seen, heard, or would like to expound on of concern for me. Due to the length of time I may limit my response in order to ensure that everyone can have a chance to ask or share, but be assured that it is not my intention to ignore a comment or concern. The purpose of this section is simply to hear what you have been hearing or thinking. I would ask that, if you have a comment, concern, or question and are not able to ask me please fill out a slip of paper and leave it in the basket.


Finally, where we hope to be! In this final section of the meeting it is my purpose to review with you all the new activities that have been happening in the parish and the ways that you can get involved in the life of the parish.




In actuality I can answer that question with insight since I was quite involved in this parish because of my friendship with one of the sons of the parish: Fr. Michael Gurnick. Meeting the seminarian. Mike Gurnick, he introduced me to the parish and, through his introduction invited me to get more involved. And, what I remember 25 years ago were the following:


1)    A full school, and as far as I can remember, each class had a full-time teacher.

2)    Two full-time parochial vicars and a pastor.

3)    Three weekday masses M-F and five weekend masses—one Saturday Vigil and four Sunday Masses.

4)    Church attendance was quite high, at least from what I can remember when I used to distribute Holy Communion.

5)    Youth Group was vibrant and we had many students from Jr. High—through High School who would attend retreats and FOP’s on Sundays.


Obviously there are probably many more things that the parish had that I did not mention, but for now I believe that this is sufficient to re-cap where we were twenty-five years ago. Now, let’s view some things that have changed:


1)    Our Lady of Mount Carmel and Immaculate Conception have a merged school.

2)    I am the only priest in residence in the parish, with, thanks be to God, a weekend priest.

3)    Weekday masses are now M-Th and a monthly First Friday Mass and, beginning on January 1, 2017 we now have 3 masses on the weekend.

4)    Church attendance has been under 1,000 people per all weekend masses.

5)    Youth group has been under reconstruction since 2009 with the decision to forgo the partnership with Lake Life Teen.


Now, some may feel that the picture looks gloomy; however, there is much excitement that I can report to you all of where we are today:




1)    January, 2016 parish holds first ever Town Hall Meeting. The desire of the meeting is to share demographics of the parish, as well as, generate new ideas for the parish community.

2)    September, 2016 parish introduces Parish Pastoral Plan—where the parish highlighted four areas to help grown the involvement of all parishioners; they were: Teaching, Worship, Hospitality, and Social Justice.

3)    Following the Pastoral Plan the parish has introduced new opportunities for parishioners to grow in their faith and to learn their faith, such as: retreats, forty hours, guest speakers, collections for the McKinley Center, and of course, more opportunities for the celebration of confession.


This year, due to the change in the Mass schedule, our Parish Pastoral Planning Team has been working on a new program entitled “In Between the Pews”. In this program we are inviting all parishioners to come to St. Joseph Hall following the Sunday Masses in Lent to gather for fellowship and some good old fashioned faith sharing. The purpose is to give parishioners an opportunity to learn, grow, and re-discover the beauty of our Catholic faith. A time frame and schedule is still being worked on, but one thing that I am asking you all to do is: to come.


Your presence is most important as we continue with these new ideas; your presence is valued because it helps us to know that people are desiring and wanting to grow in their faith; your presence is appreciated because you are letting us know that what we are doing makes a difference in the life of the parish. My friends I need you to help make “Between the Pews” a reality and a resounding success, and for that to happen – we need you to come. Those of you who may say, “But I have ‘no’ time” need to realize that time is just an illusion. Time is what we make of it and how we choose to use it. We are not its servant, it is ours.  We need to take advantage of some of the great opportunities that we are trying in order to help our parish to grow and advance. Please make this program a success by attending and sharing yourself with others.


Now, without going on another tangent, I am desiring to hear from all of you. So, let me ask you: What are some of the questions, comments, or things you have been thinking, or hearing, or would like to let me know about? Remember that if you have a comment that you would like to make and cannot ask me due to limited time, please use the paper at the tables and we will answer them as we are able with the assistance of Parish Council.




I do not want us to leave this meeting and wonder—well those are all nice comments, but what are we going with all of this? The answer to that question lies with each one of you. You, my brothers and sisters, are the ones who need to answer that question and through answering that question you need to let me know what you are willing to do. I need your help, as I have said before, but more than that I need your assistance to help me to foster the activities that our parish is striving to do this upcoming year. So, what I would like to do now is to review with you all of the ministries that we currently have in the parish. I am asking, unless you already belong to one of these ministries, that you would consider signing up for one of the ministries that we are reviewing. Please understand that signing up for a ministry:


1)    Does not mean you are committed for life—and your only “release” is death.

2)    Does not mean you are automatically going to be the chairperson and you will have to attend numerous meetings.

3)    Does not mean you are expected to leave family, loved ones, and life as you know it, to spend all your time committed to this ministry.


Rather, we are asking you to get involved in the life of the Church. This, my brothers and sisters, is where we hope to be in the future. Getting parishioners of all ages to get re-involved, to re-engage in the life of the parish. My brothers and sisters, this is the only way that we can continue to keep our parish vibrant and moving forward into the future. With that being said let me share with you the opportunities that you have as we enter this next section.





This parish town hall meeting would not have been possible if it were not for the help of many people, all of whom I am deeply indebted to.


The first is the pastoral staff. Each and every one of these men and women aid and help me in my role as pastor and how incredibly grateful I am for their guidance, support, and assistance.

The second is the pastoral planning team. These men and women took up my invitation after their terms on parish council were concluded. They have been working with me as I have been working to implement the parish pastoral plan since we introduced it to the parish in September last year.


The third is the parish pastoral council and the finance council, all of whom I cannot thank enough for the guidance and support that is so often provided on a timely basis.

Finally, I want to thank you all for your support. As I have shared with you before I cannot even comprehend this job without the regular guidance and assistance of so many people. For all of you I say thank you and be assured of my prayers for all you have and continue to do for me.


As we conclude let us ask the Blessed Virgin Mary to intercede for us as we pray, Hail Mary…



May the Lord Bless You and Keep You,

New Mass and Confession Schedules begin the weekend of 12/31 & 1/01

New Mass and Confession Schedules will Begin the Weekend of December 31, 2016 & January 1, 2017


New Weekend Mass Schedule:

Saturday Vigil Mass: 4:30 pm

Sunday Masses: 8:30 am and 11:00 am


Week Day Mass Schedule:

Monday through Thursday: 7:30 am

First Friday

7:00 pm

  New Holy Day Mass Schedule:

7:30 am, 12:15 pm and 7:00 pm

No Vigil Mass - will have Vespers & Eucharistic Holy Hour


Civil Holidays (4th of July, Memorial Day and Labor Day only)

9:00 am


 New Confession Schedule:

Saturdays: 3:00-4:00 pm


First Wednesday: 6:00-7:30 pm

First Friday: 5:00-6:30 pm

First Saturday: 5:45-6:30 pm

Knights of Columbus Fall undertakings

The Knights of Columbus Continuing Efforts


(click on image for full size)

  • Adoration in the new Chapel of the Immaculate Conception (November 1, 2016)
  • Leading Rosary for Pro Life month (October 15, 2016)
  • Leading Rosary for Pro Life month (October 15, 2016)
  • Leading Rosary for Pro Life month (October 15, 2016)
  • Leading Rosary for Pro Life month (October 15, 2016)
  • Leading Rosary for Pro Life month (October 15, 2016)
  • Crosses to support Choose Life (October 1, 2016)
  • Changing Lights in Church (September 15, 2016)
  • Changing Lights in Church (September 15, 2016)
  • Helping at Parish Picnic (August 21, 2016)

Pastoral Plan 2016


Click Here for Pastoral Plan 2016

Parish Council Meeting Notes

Parish Council Meeting Notes will be provided to the Parish.

Please click on the Date of the meeting below for Meeting Notes


August 16, 2016

The Thomas Merton Prayer

The Thomas Merton Prayer

My Lord God,
I have no idea where I am going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where it will end. Nor do I really know myself, and the fact that I think that I am following your will does not mean that I am actually doing so. But I believe that the desire to please you does in fact please you. And I hope I have that desire in all that I am doing. I hope that I will never do anything apart from that desire. And I know that if I do this you will lead me by the right road, though I may know nothing about it. Therefore will I trust you always, though I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death. I will not fear, for you are ever with me, and you will never leave me to face my perils alone.

Knights of Columbus is here to help

Are you struggling to pay your bills and need some things taken care of around your house?


Are you having a hard time getting things done around your house, maybe do to older age, injury or illness?


If so your local Immaculate Conception Church Knights of Columbus are willing to help you with odd jobs around your house.


Jobs consisting of; yard cleanup, small repairs, moving things etc.


Please contact Daryl Blatnick at 440-220-2213.

Would you like to support Msgr Ngindu and Sts. Peter & Paul Parish Clinic?

Please view the "Congo Clinic" slide show on the home page to view the construction of the health center in Msgr Ngindu's parish, Sts. Peter & Paul, in the Congo. While much has already been accomplished, there is still much to be done! Costs have risen, and there have been unexpected expenses incurred. You can help, if you wish, by donating to the clinic.You can make the check payable to Immaculate Conception, but notate in the memo section "Congo Clinic". Drop the check in the weekly offeratory collection or into the Rectory mail box, located on the right hand side of the entrance.  

Used Clothing Drop-Off Shed

There is a new Used Clothing Drop-off Shed located next to the paper retriever bins along the fence-line in the main parking lot. Items accepted are:

All clothing, shoes, sneakers, belts, purses, blankets, sheets, pillowcases, drapes, and stuffed toys. Please....NO rags, fabric scraps, pillows, toys, or household goods; please understand that these unwanted items are a hardship and expense to dispose of.

The company servicing this shed is St Pauly Textile. They have been working with a large number of parishes in New York State and are expanding now into Ohio. They send the clothing to people who can use it all over the US and World.

Recycling these clothing items help the environment by keeping your clothing out of the landfill.

You may be able to receive a tax deduction for your donation. Receipts are on the shed.

Please help us to keep your donation clean and dry. If possible, please put in tied or closed bags. Thank you!

Immaculate Conception Food Pantry Move

On July 7, 2014, Immaculate Conception Food Pantry has joined with and reopened as part of

McKinley Community Outreach Center
1200 Lost Nation Road
Willoughby, Ohio 44094

Food Pantry Hours of Operation will be:
Monday evening: 6:00 - 8:00PM
Wednesday afternoon: 12Noon - 3:00PM
Friday afternoon 12Noon - 3:00PM

McKinley Community Outreach Center Hours of Operation are:
3rd Tuesday of each month 6:00 - 7:30PM
2nd & Last Saturday of each month: 8:30 - 11:00AM

SS Peter & Paul - Pictures of Clinic we helped to build!

From Msgr Ngindu:


See document under Parish Documents to the Left